For the ‘Not Really’ bit at the end, probably worth mentioning the Varjo Aero as a direct comparison to look at at that stage of spending.
EDIT: Updated - the Meta Quest Pro is also worth a look after the Quest 3 comes out and has some sim reviews. The Quest 3 has no eye tracking option but a higher resolution and the same or better lenses, and for half the price. The Pro does have much better panels though, so hard to tell yet. It really depends on if Meta screw anything up for the Quest 3 launch or discount the Pro after 3 is out, or come out with a Quest 3 Pro edition soon.