its not really about money as it is strength to admit you have a problem and seek out the help.
Lead a horse to water, but cant make him drink.
Case in Point, My brother (who was also a lead singer in a band for at least 10 years), went on a downward spiral after my father died a few years back.
He started doing some OTC Drugs and Drinking alot, about a month and a half ago he tried to commit suicide, and failed, and was put in a rehab facility and placed on suicide watch for 14 days (no phone, no nothing).
We had already been keeping an eye on him, but he felt he couldn't come to family or even his band mates to talk about stuff.
So now he is in therapy, seeking counseling, and a bunch of other stuff.
Point is, whatever he was dealing with in his head, he felt he couldnt even seek help from his own family.